"You are only as good as your next speech"

What do you do when you failed or got defeated?

1. Shift the blame to others or luck?

2. Create excuses or reasons for your poor performance?

3. Cry like a baby?

4. Self-pity?

5. Get others to pity?

6. Ask where God was?

7. Admit that you were weak?

8. Give up?

How about asking that person in the mirror why he/she fucked up? Why went soft and weak? Is he/she interested to be better? How much do you want to improve? Are you comfortable with your current state?

If you don't put in extra effort, don't expect to be better the next time you deliver.

Mervyn Sinaga said "You are only as good as your next speech (or performance)".

Grow up, grow some balls, admit that you are weak and work for your goal.

The Biggest Mistake People Make in Conversations by Mervyn Sinaga

I ride in Uber or Grab.
It's annoying when they appeared to dig into my personal life.

98% of them do not know what to say. 
1% of them are nice to chat with
1% were quiet

Mistakes what the 98% did:
1. Asked where I stay (if I stay where I was picked or going to)
2. Asked where I work
3. Asked if I am married/how many kids
4. Asked how much I make
5. Asked if I invest in any property
6. Asked me out (have not even attracted me yet, What Men Don't Understand About Attraction is they missed out the most important step - click the link to find out)
7. Told me details of his previous job
8. Told me where he/she lives
9. Told me where he/she used to work/working
10. Trying to impress me with how many properties he has

The conversations I enjoyed more were when we talked about:
1. Men
2. Women
3. Relationships
4. Cats/Dogs/Pets
5. Food
6. Politics
7. Interests
8. Travels
9. Education system

If you can share your opinions, observations, experiences, you are way less boring than those who only know how to talk about data.

Mervyn Sinaga gave very useful tips here :
The Biggest Mistake People Make in Conversations

Don't watch these two videos in the above links if you are comfortable being boring or creepy.

I am Angry, I am an Idiot.

Why people got angry or frustrated?

They are needy.

They have the need to :

1.       Win

2.       Be right

3.       Be understood

4.       Be at the Center of attention

Deny them any of these, they explode.

Some may even kill.

Oh, also, they think others are idiots when maybe they are the idiots.

I am an Idiot.

Be Considerate, Love Birds

Dear love birds,

Please do not block the escalators, because there are people who :

- need to rush for the toilet before they lao jio or lao sai
- need to rush for cucumbers, brinjals, whatever substitues before the supermarket closes
- have better things to do than watching how much space you both can fill
- go grab that pink shoes and matching handbags on sale
- ARE considerate

Do your cuddling shit on the left side. You know enough how to compact 2 into 1.
Keep the right side empty.
Thank you.

Lost male dog - Behind Times Square Penang (MPPP Enforcement Office)

A male dog brown colour with collar loitering around behind MMall (Birch Regency condo).
Time : 12:10am
Date: 31 Jan 2017
Fed it some dry cat kibbles and water.
It was hungry. Hope his owner finds him soon.
Please share.