Friday, August 10, 2018

Handmade Bracelet - Jewellery Making workshop

Learn how to make beautiful Swarovski Crystal Bracelet.

Who should come? Anyone above age 16 with patience (younger is ok if above age 12).
No skills? No problem, after this class, you gain 1 extra skillset.

Date : 18 Aug 2018
Time : 3pm - 6pm
Duration : 3hr session.
Venue : Times Square, Dato Keramat, Penang
Fee : RM 200 per pax

You get to bring home what you finish making!
Special discounts available:
- Bring a friend : RM 20 off each person
- Early Bird promo : Get additional RM 20 off per pax if paid via Internet Banking before 11.59pm on 12 Aug 2018.
Banking details : Maybank Acc number 157054857541 (Josephine Lim)

Whatsapp Joez at 012-4771525 for enquiries.
Facebook page : Dazzle & Dangle

Click here for more details : Event Link

Future workshops available (Earrings/Bracelets/Necklaces)

Thursday, April 19, 2018

Things Men Do That Women Hate

Yesterday, at the last hour, one member pulled out from her speaking slot. I decided to fill in the gap. Thanks to Mervyn Sinaga for sharing a post in Real Men and Relationships Forum, inspired me to speak about it.

My 2nd time doing an impromptu speech without script. I felt free. Still got a lot to improve on, that means more stage time. Yay!

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Lie only if you have high IQ

People with low IQ should not lie. They don't realise how they can get caught...almost too easily.

Thursday, February 23, 2017

"You are only as good as your next speech"

What do you do when you failed or got defeated?

1. Shift the blame to others or luck?
2. Create excuses or reasons for your poor performance?
3. Cry like a baby?
4. Self-pity?
5. Get others to pity?
6. Ask where God was?
7. Admit that you were weak?
8. Give up?

How about asking that person in the mirror why he/she fucked up? Why went soft and weak? Is he/she interested to be better? How much do you want to improve? Are you comfortable with your current state?

If you don't put in extra effort, don't expect to be better the next time you deliver.
Mervyn Sinaga said "You are only as good as your next speech (or performance)".
Grow up, grow some balls, admit that you are weak and work for your goal.

Monday, February 20, 2017

The Biggest Mistake People Make in Conversations by Mervyn Sinaga

I ride in Uber or Grab.
It's annoying when they appeared to dig into my personal life.

98% of them do not know what to say. 
1% of them are nice to chat with
1% were quiet

Mistakes what the 98% did:
1. Asked where I stay (if I stay where I was picked or going to)
2. Asked where I work
3. Asked if I am married/how many kids
4. Asked how much I make
5. Asked if I invest in any property
6. Asked me out (have not even attracted me yet, What Men Don't Understand About Attraction is they missed out the most important step - click the link to find out)
7. Told me details of his previous job
8. Told me where he/she lives
9. Told me where he/she used to work/working
10. Trying to impress me with how many properties he has

The conversations I enjoyed more were when we talked about:
1. Men
2. Women
3. Relationships
4. Cats/Dogs/Pets
5. Food
6. Politics
7. Interests
8. Travels
9. Education system

If you can share your opinions, observations, experiences, you are way less boring than those who only know how to talk about data.

Mervyn Sinaga gave very useful tips here :
The Biggest Mistake People Make in Conversations

Don't watch these two videos in the above links if you are comfortable being boring or creepy.

Thursday, February 16, 2017

I am Angry, I am an Idiot.

Why people got angry or frustrated?

They are needy.

They have the need to :
1.       Win
2.       Be right
3.       Be understood
4.       Be at the Center of attention

Deny them any of these, they explode.
Some may even kill.

Oh, also, they think others are idiots when maybe they are the idiots.
I am an Idiot.

Friday, February 03, 2017

Be Considerate, Love Birds

Dear love birds,

Please do not block the escalators, because there are people who :

- need to rush for the toilet before they lao jio or lao sai
- need to rush for cucumbers, brinjals, whatever substitues before the supermarket closes
- have better things to do than watching how much space you both can fill
- go grab that pink shoes and matching handbags on sale
ARE considerate

Do your cuddling shit on the left side. You know enough how to compact 2 into 1.
Keep the right side empty.
Thank you.

Thursday, February 02, 2017

Lost male dog - Behind Times Square Penang (MPPP Enforcement Office)

A male dog brown colour with collar loitering around behind MMall (Birch Regency condo).
Time : 12:10am
Date: 31 Jan 2017
Fed it some dry cat kibbles and water.
It was hungry. Hope his owner finds him soon.
Please share.

Thursday, January 05, 2017

To advise or not to advise?

People love to give advice, don't they? Especially those who are still young or think they know enough to give advice. 

I can understand, I was young once. I was hurt, angry, disappointed, frustrated, sometimes excited...all those emotions I needed to find some ways to channel out. So, what did I do? I started telling people what to do, what not to do, as if I was an expert. Sometimes I tried too hard, I needed to convince them. I needed to warn them. I needed to save them. Really? Could I? Can I? I needed to save myself first. I should be looking at myself and working on myself first. How much did I know? How much do I know to tell others? Yeah, ok...share but don't advise. 

When I said I knew better, I knew best....guess what? Some folks could be rolling their eyes or shaking their head at me. I don't know enough shit to tell people what to do or not to do. I must remind myself not to act like an expert. Tell what I know but don't have to have the need to convince and make them follow my idea or opinion.

Sometimes it's best to shut up and just do.
Now, that's probably the best advice for myself.