Always in a hurry

My life is in such hurry that I sweat right after I showered.

How to spot an Alpha Male - by Mervyn Sinaga

Mervyn Sinaga, founder of the Real Men Forum presented an interesting topic on Alpha Male.


Watch it here on Youtube.

The Four Big Flags That Show You're A Weak Man

Very important message from the Founder of Real Men Forum, Mervyn Sinaga :



Women know when you’re acting weak. Do you wanna know if you’re acting weak? Here are the Four Big Flags of Weakness.

If you want to continue being a weak man, that’s fine, don’t watch the video.

The Four Big Flags of Weakness:
1. Indecisiveness
2. Not clear in your intention
3. Changing your opinion to match hers
4. Sitting around waiting on her hand and foot:
• you’re buying her gifts
• you’re always doing things she wants
• you’re doing more than 30% of the calling, texting and pursuing.



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How To Deliver Honest Criticism

From the founder of Real Men Forum, Mervyn Sinaga :

One of the most powerful professional skills you can own is in this video. If it's ever part of your manly duty to deliver honest criticism, you'll want to know exactly how to do this. Here it is then. In all it's 2-minute glory. Watch it, master it, and enjoy the rewards of this manly skill.

Presentation at Dell Penang Toastmasters Club - #00811596

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Strong boy

Saw this little guy helping his mom to carry toilet rolls.
Steady and gaya...stylo.

Won top Prize

Was challenged to do a Table Topics using 3 words flashed out as we spoke. I used and inhaled the Helium gas and my voice was really funny.
Had fun although I was afraid of Balloons.

Oyster my Cat grooming with her legs kangkang

What a pose....haha. She can do splits.

90 secs challenge - Role of Toastmaster of the Day

Was challenged by Mervyn Sinaga to present a 20-minute topic within 90 seconds. 
My 1st attempt : 1 min and 51 secs.
Will try again. Need to work on Clarity, Brevity & Impact.

Get out please ~ !

What is the point to think over and over when you know the answer is not favourable to you? 

Don't think then.

How to stop thinking?

Do something else…keep yourself busy?

…but I have this ability to multi-task.

The thought is still there…in there! Damn...

Everlasting Love

Found these two 'lovebirds' together. Amazing that they could be together until the end. That took a lot of commitment from both. 
How often can one do that for the other?

RIP ladybirds.

Toast away the Blues

They took away my Monday blues. Thank you. I lava you guys.

You're lucky if you can fall asleep easily

A tired mind leads to a tired body because I am just too tired to do anything.

I want to sleep but I can't.

It's not my kind of game

How far will one go to create impression?
How fake can one be to do just that?
Can one still remain honest and sincere while trying to create impression ?

In my opinion, if you're really good, you don't even have to 'create' impression.
By just being real (plus the skills that you have), you can be impressive.

I've seen some preferred fame. They are willing to go to any extend to play the game. This game is so lame and full of shame.

Whose mindset?

I was told that it is all about mindset.

Do you know it is not easy?

Maybe it has to be done but what if I do not want to?

I like what I am thinking now although I am not sure if I will ever get to that point.

If it is about mindset, yes, it is mine, not yours, not for you or anyone to determine but me…

…and I am positive about it.

How Loyal are you?

One is never loyal except for his self-interest.

Chance or Choice?

Sometimes what you want, you don't get, what you don't want is offered to you.
Nicely packaged too but don't be deceived by its outlook.

The question is...dare you take the risk?
If so, which risk?